Showing posts with label Emotion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Emotion. Show all posts

Sunday, May 23, 2010

3 Stages of Grief Work

Everyone goes through some type of loss. This must be grieved if we are to heal from it.


Grief is an inevitable part of life. For some, it's a relatively quick journey lasting a few months; for others, a journey that may take years to complete. Working through the grief stages is frequently referred to as "grief work."


  • facing the reality of loss



  • working through painful memories



  • experiencing the full range of emotions associated with loss



  • coping with the situational and lifestyle changes resulting from the loss



  • adapting to the loss, and reconfiguring their own life

  • The Stages of Grief

    Stage 1: "Acclimation and Adjustment"

    Stage 2: "Emotional Immersion and Deconstruction"

    Stage 3: "Reclamation and Reconciliation"

    Talking about "recovering" from grief is almost disrespectful, as life is never restored to the way it was before the loss of someone close.
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    Wednesday, May 12, 2010

    The Power of Neutral

    Practicing The Power of Neutral helps bring your mind, emotions and physiology to a state of neutral. Think of neutral as a “time-out zone” where you can step back, neutralize your emotions and see more options with objective clarity.
    Take a time-out. Breathe slow and deeply. Imagine the air entering and leaving through your heart area in the center of your chest.
    Try to disengage from your stressful thoughts and feelings as you continue breathing.
    Continue until you have chilled out and neutralized the emotional charge.
    One of the things that can help you get to neutral is asking yourself, “Do I really want to keep draining energy and stressing about the situation or how bad I feel?” For example, right before a situation that normally makes you anxious or stressed, you may start negatively projecting the idea you will blow it or be judged by others. This is the perfect time to use The Power of Neutral.
     
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